Sex & Relationship Coaching Testimonials


"Sue combines a deep professionalism with a sense of respect and common-sense. Her counselling, her suggested exercises and her insight helped me to understand aspects of my sexuality that have improved my relationship, boosted my self esteem and answered questions I did not know I could even ask. Her dedication and commitment were significant factors in my unfolding journey and the strength and simplicity of her advice remain useful and used to this day.

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"Once I'd reached the age of sixty, I decided to look for something new in my life. I'd had a varied and interesting set of sexual experiences, but with an appetite for more, I went looking. My sessions with Sue have offered new perspectives and an acceptance of me as I am. I learnt that you are never too old to feel young again - you are never too old to consider new ideas, to fulfil ambitions and explore and enrich your sexuality.

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Sexual preferences other than the conventional, have been frowned on and labelled 'odd', 'weird', 'kinky' and even 'perverted'. So I, with my fantasy, my secret thoughts, my own ideas and hopes, I have always felt a leper; and yet I consider myself 'normal' in all other ways. This is how I have felt and lived for many years, until I explored my alternatives, which led me to Sue. I found her receptive and totally unbiased and she has helped me cast off the cloak of embarrassment that I'd felt compelled to wear. She helped me to understand myself and to explode the stereotypical myths that wanted to shame me. We talked & talked; about my fantasy, about my secret thoughts, about my ideas and hopes and above all there was no judgement.

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I have been consulting Sue Newsome over a considerable period of time, which began when I felt the desperate need for some guidance and practical help and advice in my life and my relationship with my spouse. I have felt increasingly that her approach has helped me to understand my situation, turn my life around from being somewhat desperate to being comfortable, and have a very positive outlook. This in turn has made noticeable changes in the interaction between my spouse and me which I hope will lead to a turnaround in the relationship. I have no doubt in my own mind that Sue has helped me bridge that gap. Many thanks Sue."

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"I was born with no legs and a deformed right arm. I met Sue ten years ago and after regular visits from her, to-day I feel complete and fulfilled. Thanks to Sue I now feel human."

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"After 14 years of celibacy I decided that I couldn’t face the prospect of never having a sexual relationship again. I had been seriously abused as a child and did manage to have sexual relationships but only if I was “absent” through the use of drugs or alcohol. I wanted to have a relationship with an adult with a sexual side to that relationship. I just didn’t think I was capable of it, but I wanted to try. I tried several different sexual counsellors and I was just left feeling more and more like I had no hope of ever being able to sexual and present. Then one of them put me in touch with Sue. For many sessions we just talked and I slowly learned to feel safe. I am still a work in progress but I am living inside my body and I feel beautiful and clean and whole which has brought around a whole change in my fundamental being and my day to day life. It’s like opening my eyes and seeing myself for the first time as an adult woman and the image of myself that Sue mirrors to me takes my breath away. We also have a really good laugh at times and she’s given me the confidence to go on and explore my sexuality with other people in different ways, but always in safety and with love and mutual respect. I so wish I’d found her years ago."

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My name is Dominic Webb. I am disabled, having had a spinal cord injury 18 years ago. I am a quadriplegic, paralysed from the shoulders down. I also use a ventilator to help me to be able to breathe. I have known Sue Newsome for over five years. It is no exaggeration to say that She has changed my life. When I first had a disability. I thought that it would be the end of any type of sensual experience, let alone a sex life! I was resigned to this as an inevitable part of my disability.
Sue has opened up a whole world of sensual and sexual liberation for me. We have developed together a multi-sensual massage. This involves stroking, caressing, scratching and kissing of the head and shoulder area which I can feel. Over the years we have discovered together that I really enjoy just being held tightly and cuddled and stimulation of erogenous areas such as the ears and massage of the neck and shoulders. We have developed stimulation of my other senses, such as using feathers to touch, music to relax by as well as lighting and the use of incense. I would heartily recommend Sue's services to anyone."

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"I had come out of a very difficult separation from a long-term relationship with very little confidence and to be honest, I was anxious about the prospect of dating again. I was very nervous about the idea of working with a female sex coach but Sue was very understanding and non-judgemental and she made me feel at ease almost from the first minute of our meeting. I came away from our sessions feeling that I knew more about women and men in general and much, much more about myself. Now I feel that I can be a better partner and lover and I was surprised at just how much I enjoyed my coaching sessions. I think that this type of sex and relationship education is missing from the health and education systems in this country. Thanks Sue, you have been an inspiration."

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"We found ourselves in a very uncomfortable place in our relationship where sex had become almost non-existent, and when it did happen, it was often fraught and was starting to have a negative effect on our whole relationship. Probably for the first time in our relationship, with Sue's support and encouragement, we each spoke about our desires, our fears and what we wanted in terms of our physical relationship. This was not easy and Sue helped us through these difficult sessions and in the end, we both felt that we had found a place where we could discuss the most intimate and difficult subjects without having a full-blown argument. We were surprised at how the practical exercises helped us to re-engage in a sexy way and we both feel grateful to Sue for re-awakening and refreshing our sex life."

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"Once I'd reached the age of sixty, I decided to look for something new in my life. I'd had a varied and interesting set of sexual experiences, but with an appetite for more, I went looking. My sessions with Sue have offered new perspectives and an acceptance of me as I am. I learnt that you are never too old to feel young again - you are never too old to consider new ideas, to fulfil ambitions and explore and enrich your sexuality."

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"I was Sue's client a few years ago. She is absolutely phenomenal and has made a real difference in my life."

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"Sexual preferences other than the conventional, have been frowned on and labelled 'odd', 'weird', 'kinky' and even 'perverted'. So I, with my fantasy, my secret thoughts, my own ideas and hopes, I have always felt a leper; and yet I consider myself 'normal' in all other ways. This is how I have felt and lived for many years, until I explored my alternatives, which led me to Sue. I found her receptive and totally unbiased and she has helped me cast off the cloak of embarrassment that I'd felt compelled to wear. She helped me to understand myself and to explode the stereotypical myths that wanted to shame me. We talked & talked; about my fantasy, about my secret thoughts, about my ideas and hopes and above all there was no judgement."